I found that when dating online, a large percentage of men (and I hear that women do it too), lie about themselves in one way or another. Typically, its height that most dishonest men will lie about, and I hear that women most often lie about their weight. In my profile, I said that I was partial to men who were 60 or taller. As a result, I met more than a few men who said that they were 60 tall, but upon meeting them, I found that they were usually much shorter. I can honestly say, that in the years that I was dating online, I must have met dozens of men, and in my estimation, a good 80% of them were completely dishonest with regard to their height.

Online dating sites are repetitive in their advice to post a picture with your profile. Theyre right. You will most definitely get more responses to your profile if you add your picture, than you will if you dont. The first time that I went online and did my profile, I didnt post a picture, because (and this is a common excuse), I didnt want anyone I knew to fluke onto my picture online. At that time, I posted the profile, and within minutes I received about 3 or 4 smiles or some sites call them winks. Okay, not amazing, right? About 2 weeks later, discouraged with the number and type or attention I was receiving, I posted a picture. The response was instant. I was swamped. The site administrators are definitely right. The profile with the picture gets much more attention than the no picture profile.

When youre posting a profile picture, in gawds name, PLEASE post a picture that is RECENT. Recent picture meaning within the last year or two. Too many times daters (men and women) post pictures of themselves that are 9 or 10 years old, taken way back when they were 40 or 50 pounds lighter, had more hair, and before they began to look like they do at present. Nothing is more frustrating than meeting someone who posted a picture of themselves that is older then dirt! Most times, they dont even look like the same person. DO NOT POST AN ANCIENT PICTURE OF YOURSELFEVER! Save yourself the embarrassment, and post a recent picture. I know women who have walked out on dates with men who were dishonest with regard to their physical description. And they should!

If youre going to date online, do it right. Be honest, and include a RECENT picture with your profile. Nobody wants to see a 20 year old picture of you expecting that thats who theyll be meeting. Itll only get you a bad reaction when you do meet.

Heres to happy dating!

Nicolette.

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