Unexpected loss is fraught with deep emotions that words can barely express. To help families cope with the shock and agony, flowers offer comfort and express sympathy.

Manners and methods of conveying sympathy vary through countries, cultures and religions, but flowers remain fitting tributes to a departed soul. Displayed during the funeral service and remaining after the ceremony, flowers act as aromatic reminders of the departed member who so enriched life's journey with an inimitable presence.

While a personal selection is always best, florists are familiar with the most effective colors and designs. A guidebook on conventional styles of flower arrangements for funerals may also help. Cultural taboos must be observed and good taste observed. A florist can also deliver funeral flowers to the bereaved family without invading privacy.

Despite changing trends in funeral services, flowers can be designed to convey the spirit and aura of the person. Talk to the florist about the deceased's personality and special quirks for a more personalized floral creation that will lend comfort to the grieving family.

Wreaths symbolizing the circle of life are the most recognized tokens of condolence. But increasingly, flower sprays highlighted on an easel, fresh flower arrangements in a vase or container, casket sprays and floral designs for inside the casket are gaining attention. Colors are conventionally white, pinks and pastels but red roses or tropical blooms can also convey warmth and depth of feeling.

Sometimes, an offering of a potted green, a flowering plant, bonsai or sapling can spark hope and renewal in sorrowing hearts. The very act of caring for a new plant can speed the grieving process and set in the healing.

Even after the immediate days of loss, sending funeral flowers after a few weeks can be a good idea. Reassurance and good cheer can be underlined through these offerings and remind the recipients that the departed spirit shines brighter than ever and the reminiscing is shared.

Flowers at a funeral are a way of showing sensitivity and commiseration and provide moral support as well as soothe disturbed hearts. Flowers create a hallowed atmosphere that reveres and sanctifies the passing and celebrate life.